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Get involved…Volunteer and financially support organizations that fight the tragedy of CSA.

Get involved…Volunteer and financially support organizations that fight the tragedy of CSA. Use your voice and your vote to make your community a safer place for our children. Besides the Child Advocacy Center, there is Darkness to Light (D2L.org), Prevent … Continue reading

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Act on suspicions…being a silent bystander to sexual abuse

Being a silent bystander to sexual abuse could contribute to a lifetime of psychological and emotional problems for a child victim. In North Carolina every citizen is a mandated reporter. You don’t need evidence of abuse before making a report. … Continue reading

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Make a plan…learn where to go

Learn where to go, who to call and how to react in the best interest of your child even if you have no suspicions that your child is being sexually abused. Should you suspect that a child is being sexually … Continue reading

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Stay alert… Do not expect there to be obvious signs

Do not expect there to be obvious signs when a child is being sexually abused. The signs are often emotional or behavioral, not physical or verbal. It takes an alert adult to recognize these signs. Help children to understand their … Continue reading

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Talk about it…

Children often keep abuse a secret, but barriers can be broken down by talking openly about it. Perpetrators choose to set children up through secrecy, manipulation, and fear. Adults participate in the choice through denial, fear, complacency, and lack of … Continue reading

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Minimize opportunity…

If you eliminate or reduce one-adult/one-child situations, you’ll dramatically lower the risk of sexual abuse for your child. More than 80% of sexual abuse cases happen in one-adult/one child situations. Think carefully about the safety of any one-adult/one-child situations. Look … Continue reading

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Learn the facts. Understand the risks…

children face a significant threat from child sexual abuse. We don’t get the sexual abuse of 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys before their 18th birthday by happenstance. When adults go into denial and fear, the sexual … Continue reading

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Teach children not to give out their email addresses, home addresses, or phone numbers while using the Internet…

Establish rules and guidelines for Internet use. Teach your child what they should do if a new Internet friend asks to see them in person or wants a picture. Let the parent know if messages are received that make them … Continue reading

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Get involved…

Stay informed about the Internet, the emerging laws that govern and the policies that schools, places of worship and other community centers use to keep it safe for children.  Monitor child’s access to all types of electronic communication, chat rooms, … Continue reading

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Act on suspicions…

Understand how, when, and where to report suspicious behavior online. Contact law enforcement if anyone in the household has received child pornography or if your child has been solicited in any way by someone who knows the child is under … Continue reading

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